My GF just yesterday got pissed at me for ?talking down? to her. From my perspective, i am simply expressing my thoughts as fully as i can. Not perfectly, but for the most part. Im not sure how explaining my point of view is so offensive at times. And like i tell her, ill tell you, it is not a matter of talking down to you, it is a matter of expression in the only way i know how. As far as writing code for me, you aint wrote a single line for me, and im the last one on earth that would expect you to, unless im paying you. If you look at that thread again on sm.org, youll see i tried several different things, as well as a few that i didnt post. Then i posted the final result of what does work. In its current form, there is a needless second query, when one will do it just fine. I just couldnt get the sql figured out. I wish i could have been programming the last 6 years after school. Then i would have code as examples instead of my lacking social skills. If we met in real life, youd see what i mean, but even like my GF, youd have to except that im different, instead of being pissed at me all the time. I recently pissed off my friend at UC Berkley from saying something that he took a different way from what i meant concerning him working for my website when he graduates. I saw it as the inclusion of a friend, he saw it as me doing something cool abd him working for me. He going to have a BS in computer science, and a minor in mathematics. The guy is absolutely brilliant. Why wouldnt i want him on my team? but he wouldnt be an employee, his title would mirepresent his position in the company. Once another year goes by, hell see what i meant so i aint worried, but a long time friend got pissed at me for basically the same thing. If it werent so fucking nuts, id laugh. I wouldnt be here if i didnt have the utmost respect for you. It does not matter to an extent how you perceive my words, what matters is, what im saying.