I suspect the current state of play (i.e. censored) is how the team, for the most part, see it as resolved. Don't expect it to be restored (there's no edit history AFAIK), don't expect an apology. We have seen how these people work, and nothing will change unless you make it change because from their POV, it's done. Plus you know if you remove AeMe because of this, it'll be seen as *your* fault not theirs, because you'd be the one to remove it, so you're fucked either way.
This... this is why I'm so pissed off with things, because god forbid they should talk to us about it first or try and reach a compromise that's, well, satisfactory for both sides. And I find it hilarious how they have talked about trying to take the moral high ground in all of this - as though we're the ones at fault.
As for my leaving places, it's not just any one place in particular; I actively feel tainted pretty much everywhere, so I've removed my account from Bryan's site, closed my account as best as I am able on Meaningles, stated the situation as far as SD is concerned (I'm going to finish what I've started, which is one converter, the plugins that I've started so far, and issue the release build of SD itself) then remove my account there.
I'll leave my DzinerStudio account open because a couple of sites I look after use their themes and I'm really not up to porting the themes and the sites to Wedge for a while given how much stuff I wrote for them originally (which would in any case have to be rewritten for Wedge - and as much as I'm in favour of porting to Wedge ASAP, I have to be pragmatic about it; these sites aren't mine per se, I just look after them as and when they need it, and if it isn't broken they don't want it tampered with, plus SMF meets their needs admirably - it's not like they're even using AeMe.)